Thursday, July 9, 2020
10 Life-Changing Ways to Happiness
10 Life-Changing Ways to Happiness 10 Life-Changing Ways to Happiness Happiness is that elusive state-of-mind that even the most upbeat people have trouble maintaining. This becomes a struggle because, for some reason, the world continually highlights unhappiness. The odd thing is most peopleâ"individuallyâ"are good-minded. But, something seems to happen when people mass-up (or watch the evening news). Itâs a phenomenon I havenât decoded yet. What I have been able to crack, however, is the formula for maintaining happiness that carries me through any level of difficulty. There isnât anything earth-shattering about these techniques. Like most things in your life, itâs not awareness thatâs the problem. Itâs the execution. To make it easy, 80% of this happiness how-to formula can be done on your own. You might need a few playmates for the other 20%. We simply canât escape the fact that next to food and shelter, peopleâs greatest needs are love and appreciation. Remember that the next time a friend comes to you in need. Smile. Itâs easier than frowning. It takes less energy. And, it makes you feel good no matter what. Extend it to a laugh and itâs impossible to be upset even if for a moment. Be Grateful. A grateful person never takes anything for granted. I promise that no matter how bad you think your life is, there are many things to be grateful for. If all else fails, think about people in the world who will never have what you have at this moment. There. All better. Exercise. It looks painful if youâve never tried it, but when itâs over youâll feel better. Its just how our physiology works. Travel. Seeing new places is fantastic. It stimulates your brain, which normally likes to operate on a path of least resistance. (Donât worry, itâs biologically set up to do that so donât feel guilty.) When you plan and take a trip, you get a three-ferâ"the anticipation, the experience, and the memory. If you canât afford to hop on a plane, get in your car and drive to a new neighborhood. Look at the houses. Check out the trees. Donât run anyone over while youâre gaping. Spend time with people you love. Just make sure youâre smiling together and not moaning. Buy a dog. My dogs have taught me more than any human being not named Mom or Dad. Pay attention to the way they live. Eat. Sleep. Poop. Unconditional love. Anyone who scratches or pets them is their friend. Every meal is the best meal even though itâs always the same meal. A walk is the daily highlight. They always focus on the present moment. Iâm convinced they were created to be human antidepressants. Eat somewhere new. Try new things. Even if the meal isnât the best meal. Take notice of the environment and presentation of the food. Take in the ambiance, smell, lighting, glassware, dishware, and so on. If youâre a homebody, make something new for dinner once every week. Sleep. Itâs one of the most important things you can do for yourself. A tired mind is awful. Slow down your day. Here are 21 Ways to Slow Down Your Day. Accept. The sooner you accept what is, the happier youâll be. What is is whatâs supposed to be. Otherwise, it wouldnt be. Id love to hear from you: What are your techniques for being happy?
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